We all come across a thousand people or even more. Don’t you ever wonder sometimes if in that crowd, your soulmate or maybe your future husband or wife is there? You’ve already crossed path, but since the time is not perfect you won’t be able to see them. Have you ever wondered about that? Well I probably do – sometimes.
It is not an easy task to trust new people and let them enter your lives. And sometimes, getting to know each other takes a lot of time, but I am sure it’ll be worth it if you know how good of a person they are.
Love is a big word. You can’t say it to anyone and you don’t say it to anyone if you don’t ever mean it.
Loving someone is like trusting your heart to this person that they won’t tear it apart in pieces and trusting them to know everything about you.
Love is a complicated thing, but for sure it’s the best feeling. I’m not saying that love is always the best thing in this world. No. It’s just an additional package to living life. Being happy is the best feeling next to being loved. You can be with anyone but not happy, there is such a huge difference on that. You can spend entirely the whole day with someone but you’re not happy.
Or other instances, you can be emotionally with someone, share same likes and totally have this connection but you are a thousand miles away from each other – but for sure they make you the happiest – extremely happy. There are a million ways to make ourselves happy. Watch your favorite TV series or maybe eat your desired dessert for the whole day. And sometimes, we have all that and we have someone who can make it a little extra happier…then you’re lucky!
But not all the time love and relationship could make you happy. It’s not like you won a million dollars in a lottery and that’s it. Love takes a lot of time, courage, effort and strength. It’s more like you’re taking a “leap of faith” to that person. Believing that they can change and that everything goes well to plan. And sometimes you have to fight for what you want and who you really love. Love and relationships can mend and make your heart shed tears in an instance. It won’t always be on the positive side. There will always be a day for misunderstandings and arguments.
But that’s not the worst past, that is just the building blocks of one relationship. I know for a fact that some unhappy things a relationship can have (such as arguments and fights) could make a relationship healthy as long as the couple hold hands to overcome the obstacle. For sure at the end of the day, it’ll be worth it. It won’t be easy nor hard, but it’ll be the greatest feeling for sure. The feeling of being in love and the feeling of having someone to love and cherish you.